A Hug

Sometimes that is what actually you need to face a fear and to really make it alright again… A Hug :)

Sometimes when someone hug you and tells you that everything is going to be alright again, it is quite possible that even they don’t know what you are going through and their hug will not take away the pain too. Once you are done with that hug and continue to talking to them, they will also go back to their lives and you know the problems will still be there. You will still be the one left here to face the challenges and difficulties of the life alone and yeah the nightmares will come again.

So telling someone that everything is going to be fine does not make it fine but yes, it makes all the wrong thing seem not so wrong more at least for some moments.

For just few moments you feel better.

I believe the best solution is to hug, and then try to peel off the shield around the depressed one and try to find out what is wrong and then try to advice and find out a solution if possible. It works wonders. For both of them. To know that you have helped someone, and that the someone is now a little less depressed only because of you J